Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Balancing work and playtime

So, for the last three weeks, have been trying to make my son understand why Mummy must work. Last night, the topic came up again as I iron my clothes for the following day. "Mummy don't go to work" he said,giving me his usual sad look as if saying, I miss you so much. That sentence always breaks my heart and a sense of guilt consumes me. But do I have a choice, can I abandon work and how do I then take care of him.
I sat down with him, telling him Mummy needs to work to get money to buy milk, Story books and soccer balls and boots for him; hoping that his love for these would make him abandon the Idea.It was only for the night. This morning, he begged again not to go to work, I tried to explain why mummy must work, only for him to say,"I don't want money," I don't want a ball" Mummy don't go to work."
I was lost for words. Decided to ignore the fact that I was already running late for work and so I sat down and watched Tom and Jerry with him for about 10 minutes. We had breakfast together and then left for work. But can I afford to go to work late everyday, I guess its a dilemma I need to face every single day as a single mum.

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